Monday 25 June 2018

Dbanj loses his child.

After reading the news about the death of Dbanj's son,my spirit became deep in sorrow. In bed with my babies, I laid hands on them and prayed to God for their safety! You know why? As parents,no matter how careful we are,if these things were meant to happen,they will happen with or without negligence! I remember putting my twin girl on the couch,the next minute,she was on the floor crying.....how did that happen??... At three months,there are lots of activities going on in their body,and when these little cute monsters discover it,they are eager to put it to use! If not that my sitting room is covered fully with rug,it would have been a drastic incident!
Twice in one day,my twin boy rolled from the couch and fell,now this one is hyperactive! He loves to kick in the air like he's riding a bicycle and while at it,he kicks at every object blocking his way!.....so he succeeded in kicking the throw pillows I used to guide him and rolled out of the couch and gbam!!!....it would have been on he rug but I learnt from the first incident, I didn't just guide him with throw pillows, I placed on the floor pillows from the room for safe landing!!!!....babies develop a rebellious attitude from cradle and no matter how careful we are,in a twinkle of an eye,an accident can happen that will make one wonder how it happened, and we end up blaming ourselves and people we left them with!
Dbanj's son  was only a year old,he had discovered the power of walking,he knows he can go anywhere  in the house without mummy's help or dad's! In my head I can paint out a scenario of how that incident could have happened! Babies are fascinated with water,they are basically drawn to it!....before I removed the bathtub in my apartment, my older son ,when he was a toddler,will go in to run the tap and sit inside till you discover he's nowhere to be found!!!....luckily for me at that age,he didn't know how to cover the drain..... If he had learnt that,he would have drowned in the process too! So if in two minutes the house is suddenly quiet and he's not on the couch sleeping,he's in the bathroom getting mischievous!!!....
It saddens me that Dbanj's son drowned in an indoor swimming pool and I can hear a lot of people asking what was the mother doing? What is a swimming pool doing in a house that has a toddler in it.....shit happens people!!! You can never love a child more than his/her parent!
I have warned my neighbour several times to keep his grandson away from the verandah.... Last month,that boy fell from the first floor to the ground! Thank God there was a sienna packed outside,he landed on the roof top of the car,and they were able to rejoice!!!.... Yes some parent can be negligent, and some can be very alert! But this incident happen and there's nothing we can do about it!.....for those asking what an indoor swimming pool is doing in a house with a toddler..... Even if it was outdoor,our adorable mischief makers are always curious....they will crawl towards it,or walk towards it!!! But I for one ,would have kept the door leading to that pool permanently shut!....but then. Shit still happens!!!
World people,please allow the family to grieve the death of their child in peace,stop pointing fingers at anybody! The parents will forever mourn and blame themselves for a long time ,all they need from you is prayers! .....not blame!!!....nobody prays to lose a child,if you can't sympathize with them,leave them alone!!! Te ni kan lomo! Ki Oluomo fun wa lomo to ma bawa ka le!.... I pray God give them the fortitude to bear this loss,and a spirit of forgiveness for one another, to enable them move forward,while I pray to God to give them a rainbow baby(ies),one that will live and wipe these uncontrollable tears from their eyes! Its a painful loss! No matter how careful we are,we can only truly,fully protect our children with prayers!

Thursday 4 July 2013

Top 9 Signs You're Husband Material (LADIES TAKE NOTE)


1. You don't notice other women
2. You have sensitivity
3. You've got your stuff together
You're smart, live on your own, know how to cook, have a steady job, and you're independent both financially and emotionally.
4. You genuinely care about her well-being
5. You're not commitment phobic
6. You're protective of your woman
7. You practice humility
You are mature enough to admit when you're wrong, apologize and really mean it.
8. You can make her laugh
9. You've introduced her to your family and friends


Hollywood actress Megan Good is married to Seventh Day Adventist preacher, Devon Franklin,


Wednesday 3 July 2013

IOOW PARTY HEATING UP... JOIN THE TRAIN (MEMBERS UNDERSTAND)

Please Note the following points:-

1). N5,000 is the amount payable per head to attend, covers full course meal, drinks, refreshment and other forms of entertainment.

2). You are free to bring your handbag(s): (spouse, boy/girl friend or friend(s) etc---but each non IOOW member U bring along will cost extra N2,500 per head-

3). Payments can be made from tomoro 1st July- till August 14.
Please this is very important becos we need to make adequate and decent preparations ahead and we won't want a situation whereby we will have to start rushing for extras and unplanned guests---

Payments should be made to this Account;
Guaranty Trust Bank
Acct Num: 0009968463 Name: Folashade Aina

(Voluntary Donations in cash or kind are highly Welcome)
Thank U--------

I Dare U to wear this... all my ladies.... Rihanna is Hot and Daring...Smoking




Islamic group wants separate camps for male and female corps members

The Jama’atu Nasril Islam (JNI) has called on the management of the National Youth Service Corps (NYSC) to stop mixing males and females in the National Youth Service Scheme physical exercise at orientation camps as it violates Islamic tenets and offends the sensibilities of Muslims.
This JNI Secretary General, Dr. Khalid Abubakar, said this at the end of a peace and unity conference for Muslim scholars in Kaduna State.
Abubakar called on the NYSC to respect the decency and chastity of female corps members during physical exercises and other activities at the orientation camps, and provide alternative camps for female Muslim corps members. (Nigerian Telegraph)

BBA Housemate, Betty, to be sued by Ethiopian Lawyer for having sex in public



 Some lawyers in Ethiopia are gearing up to sue BBA The Chase Housemate, Betty Aberra, for having sex in public. Betty had sex with fellow Housemate, Bolt from Sierre Leon, just three days after entering the BBA House.


According to a local radio show in Ethiopia called Ethiopikalink, if Betty is convicted, she could face up to six years in prison as it is an offense to have sex in public in the country. (Well, she had sex on a bed, in a room...Hehe)
The lawsuit is not the only thing Betty is facing since leaving the BBA House, she's also facing nationwide condemnation from groups who have asked the media and companies to boycott her.








LADIES: DOES YOUR MAN CONSIDER YOU SWEET IN BED??

Some Ladies get confused and try to seek answers why their Husbands or Boyfriends always tell them they are SWEET in bed, maybe after Sex. They try not to assume if they actually have sugars in their vag*nas.
These are 10 Suggestions why your Boyfriend or Husband says you are SWEET in bed:

1)- If your P*ssy is kinda tight and properly accommodates his d*ck, that is, his d*ck do not swim unnecessarily.

2)- If you wet easily, and his d*ck do not find it difficult to penetrate. And if you guys can have sex comfortably without the use of saliva or lubricant.

3)- When you groan and moan softly and quietly, in rhythm to the banging. Some Ladies shout and scream during sex.....common, no one forced you to sing the National Anthem, and that's not sweetness.

4)- if your P*ssy is warm and welcomes his d*ck. There are some p*ssies if you insert your d*ck, you feel a sense of recognition and acceptance.

5)- If you don't complain of pains during sex. If your boyfriend bangs you hard, you will complain of pain. If he bangs you slowly, you will also complain....if he fingers you with a finger, you will shout. My Dear, you are not sweet....go for check-up please.

6)- If you do not lie down like a log of wood in bed, during sex......but try to move your body.

7)- If you softly whisper in his ears to f*ck you hard, and you try to assist him by placing your hands on his a$$, in an attempt to increase the depth of penetration.

8)- if he sucks your breasts and neck, and you call out his name, rubbing his head. Example, "Emmy, I Love you so much, don't break my heart, you are so sweet" And if he loves kissing your lips or any part of your body.

9)- If you can ride him perfectly with rhythm, using the cow-girl style. That is, his d*ck do not come out of your p*ssy often....and if you do not bend and break his d*ck.

10)- If you suck his d*ck. This do not make you sweet shaa, but can be counted as an added bonus.

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